Throw yourself ... for real!
Whenever we wanted to dominate our man in bed, modesty (or lazy?) Overtook us. To dare once and for all, Desforges Nathalie Giraud, sex therapist, invited initially to revise the definition of the word dominate, which connoted "violence." Rather we speak of "taking control, power", of being "initiator". It is much easier to access than to imagine the outset with a whip! Something else important according to our expert: ask a framework and do not hesitate to prevent. It warns her man "And if tonight you let me surprise you?". Thus brought the "sitting domination" seems like a fun role play. Also, ask her man allows his curiosity to awaken him and grant him total freedom to say no, especially if one sends a little message in the day allowing time to respond. So when he says "yes", what could be more reassuring and motor for daring tonight ... really take things in hand?
Respect each other
Dominate in bed, it is undertaking a power game in mutual respect. This is not enjoying the "weakness" of Mr. to put a finger in the anus because we have always wanted to try! This is just what we like to practice otherwise usual practice to drive up the fun, discover another angle, approach new enjoyments. So it does not pass the game to the abuse even if we can test new things smoothly. For example, if we take that finger into the anus, will begin this evening by feel ... An early entry.
Give orders
Impose its happening is giving instructions: put yourself like this, put yourself like that, turn around, do not move ... etc. But dominate, not only surprise her man in his own pleasure, it's also submit how we must get them. "Take care of my breasts", "Take me by the hips" ... There are two language rules, says Desforges Nathalie Giraud: "We use the imperative and it is not said if-te-please! " If we want to reassure her partner because suddenly moved kindness personified the evil director, you can add a I love you. Which gives: let yourself do, let me do, I love you. The other feels confident.
Awaken your animal side
First, using his nails and teeth to chew and scratch (we did not say bite). The goal is not to torture (unless it's by mutual agreement) but to seek pain in its mildest form. Kamasutra offers different kinds of scratches, as the number of fingers used, the chosen area of the body, the force you put into it and the traces they leave it. Ditto for the bites. In other words, you only have to choose from to surprise and tickle your man. Then, still in the animal mind, we can spank ... or a pat if it's the first time anyone raises his hand to bed Again, the aim is not to hurt. Here, the simple gesture, even very soft, excited. Not to mention the noise is enough to raise the temperature, as discreet as it is.
Use props
Real allies! In the disorder: one thinks of the scarf, as well as tying to blindfold her partner. You can also attach it with her bra or handcuffs. Giraud Nathalie Desforges recommend the strings, which give too premeditated if the side of the cabinet draws in two seconds. It is also believed to clamp nipples designed for ladies who may well serve to Sir. We attack smoothly: one begins by chewing, moaning and searching clip only if it looks like it when the nipples are erected. Finally, if you have a vibrator, on how to use sir? He was asked to remove the legs and we just stimulate the perineal area between the testicles and anus.
Let your imagination wander
Having the above is to be able to listen fully. Even if you have understood, we must not pass the game to abuse, surprise your partner with everything that goes through your head: Use ice cubes (previously rinsed in a glass of water, otherwise they stick mucosa!), attach your man to the radiator if you find that the bars of the bed is too classic, impose him to lie on the cold tile a little freshness, leave it hanging around for a few minutes in silence his imagination as his end ... Anyway, tonight is you who rule.
