vendredi 15 janvier 2016

Make love for the first time



1. At what age is it normal to make love for the first time?
We can not emphasize enough: about sexuality, there are no normality. The difference in the age of first intercourse between girls and boys has diminished. But contrary to popular belief, young people do not become precocious. In France, the average age is 17.6 years for girls and 17.4 for boys.

Regardless of the statistics, most still do not rush and wait for the right time. For your first time is going well, it is necessary that you might want. Do not you put the pressure: stress is not a factor conducive to relaxation. Your muscles may contract and make penetration difficult.


2. How to do it the first time?
There intercourse when there is penetration. The erect penis is nestled in the vagina lubricated and performs movements back and forth to reach ejaculation. It sounds technical but do not panic, everything is done very naturally!

 Thinkstock 3. What preliminary match?
Especially, do not zap the preliminary stage. These sensual caresses allow discovery of the body of the other and a complicity between the partners. Dive into the heart of unknown sensations to determine what gives you pleasure each other. Petting, languorous kisses and erotic massages promote sexual excitement you need to take action. The male becomes erect, and lubricates your vagina naturally. Remember that a lack of lubrication makes the painful penetration. In this case, do not hesitate to moisten your vagina with saliva or lubricant.


4. What position make love in the beginning?
Keep acrobatics for later! And do not hesitate to tell your partner to slow down if you have trouble. Take your time. For the first time, the missionary (lying on your back, you on it) is a good option. In this position, the penetration is more naturally, his penis being in the center of your vagina.
The second option is the one where you are astride him. It allows you to guide her sex as you wish in your vagina and thereby control the movement back and forth.


5. What is the hymen?
Losing her virginity causes the rupture of the hymen, the membrane that partially covers the vaginal introitus. The introduction of a finger or tampon use before a first report possible hymen with mild spontaneous opening. When there is penetration the hymen tears, which may result in some moderate bleeding or pain. It is also possible to bleed a little the second time again. Know that the practice of a regular sport, including dance or horseback riding, relaxes the hymen. The first penetration is thus more smoothly.

6. Disappointed your first time?
You rarely reach the seventh heaven on your first report. Many factors come into account: fear of hurt, stress, etc ... Sex is like everything: you will have to practice to be comfortable. The vagina is not an area with multiple sensors fun, this may take time. To you to go beyond this first feeling. You will realize that it is often better after and that penetration is not the only source of enjoyment.

7. Precautions first (and all!)
This is not because it is your first time he forget to protect yourself. With the first condoms to prevent sexually transmitted disease. Do not hesitate to talk to your partner. Also remember to contraception. Make an appointment with your GP, who after a full assessment, will prescribe a suitable birth control pill.

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