mardi 24 novembre 2015

The boredom of intimacy and methods of treatment

After a period longer or shorter, it may taint intimacy between spouses kind of apathy, which may develop into what is known as sexual bored, which adversely affects not on an intimate performance, but by the relationship the two parties ocean humanitarian community. To avoid reaching that stage that could lead to divorce, we must recognize the symptoms of sexual boredom, and ways to treat it.




Of those symptoms mention the following:
First, to lose the desire for sexual intercourse with his / her spouse, but not in the self-excitation.

*Second, to become intimate relationship from both sides just «duty performance»; satisfy the other party.
*Thirdly, feeling comfortable the longer the period of interruption from sexual intercourse, with a sense of enjoying the rest of the aspects of life (the opposite of what happens in depression).

*Fourth, a sense of excitement in renewable intimate situations with a partner, and wishful thinking to continue.

*Fifth, evasion of practice with intimate partner, although there is a sense of excitement in intimate situations with him.

*Sixth, the presence of stereotyped and monotonous in the quality of sexual performance for a long time.

*Seventh, the inability to stimulate the partner of change in the intimate performance


How to treat sexual boredom?
*First, identify the reasons for its occurrence, is a result of the repeated stereotypical performance? Or as a result of the loss of an intimate dialogue? Or expectation result, prior to the meeting?

*Second, discuss it with your partner and agree on the need for change in the way of performance, meeting place, time performance, and more importantly that we leave to nature without prior planning to meet; so as not to lose the excitement expectations calculated.


*Thirdly, it should not be an obligation that all sexual encounters ends full intercourse, we could make the practice (to meet intimate without intercourse at some meetings); out of the typical practice.


*Fourth, the intimate dialogue and jokes intimate help break the pattern of red tape in the sexual relationship.


*Fifthly, experience new things and conditions of breaking the routine

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